Choose love in every situation

It is a common misconception that hate is the opposite of love. It might even surprise you to know that it is in fact fear that is the opposite of love. Confused?

The first thought behind any action comes either from love or fear, both being on opposite poles. All other positive and negative emotions that fall in between manifest from these two emotions.

Just as love and fear are opposites, emotions associated with each are also different: 

• Love brings contentment, inner peace, forgiveness 

• Fear generates anger, anxiety, hate, guilt

Understanding fear

To achieve success, or to achieve any goal, you need to cross the murky waters of fear and move into love. You cannot count on fear to simply go away with time. But if you wait for fear to pass on its own, it might be too late for you to do the things you have always wanted.

Whether you suffer from the fear of heights, the sea, closed areas, failure, financial insecurity or loneliness, fear is one of your worst enemies. It holds you back and blocks you from living life to its fullest potential.

How many times do you say I fear this and that? For example, you may set your alarm at seven in the morning for a meeting at nine because you want to sleep early and you “fear arriving late to the meeting”. What would happen if you said instead that you wanted to sleep early because you “love arriving to the meeting on time”? The action is the same, but the intention is different and that makes all the difference.

Choosing love

Choose love in everything you think, you say and you do. Love is the ultimate goal and with it comes manifestations in the form of harmony, financial abundance, good health and meaningful and rewarding relationships.

Choosing love does not mean you will not feel instinctual fear, which is the fear that is adopted when identifying a physical threat upon encountering it, like fire or a wild animal. Choosing love simply means that you will not attract your compulsive fears.

The key message is for you to choose love in every situation. This is the only way to eliminate the chance of fear (or a similar negative emotion) to take its place.

By ridding yourself of hidden negative beliefs through ThetaHealing, you are reprogramming the subconscious with new, empowering and positive beliefs, and radiating a true self-love from within that can help you create a different reality. 

ThetaHealing has the ability to reach your very core and eradicate your biggest fears, giving you the chance to start over. All you have to do is be open to the process.

With love and gratitude…

Reprinted with permission from Family Flavours magazine